Caregiving is not like raising a child. Not at all.

My father in law and I hanging out that day he got home from the hospital after the Big Stroke in 2016. Photo by Ian Hoffmann

I’ve established in previous stories that what I’m writing here is from the point of view of a millennial caregiver. I’ve been asked by multiple people who qualifies as a millennial caregiver, and as a thirty-something year old, I suppose the easy answer is, it’s a caregiver from amongst my group of peers. We millennial caregivers are doing something that inexperienced folks refer to as “not a real